Here’s some potent relationship advice: Learn to be skillful with transitions!
If you’ve ever been in a dating relationship or long-term, committed relationship, you’ve likely experienced the chaos that ensues if you don’t handle transitions well. For example, if you come home from work and you’re not actually ready to be present with your wife or kids, it’s likely someone will be pissed. 😉
Transitions are about more than just that scenario, though. They’re relevant in the early stages of dating all the way up to marriage.
Many a married client come to us because he wants MORE in his partnership. He wants to show up well with his wife, and for her to feel good with him. He wants to inspire trust, connect with her sexually in a satisfying way (both for her and for him), and have her be able to truly surrender to him.
This kind of close, sexy dynamic requires healthy, vibrant polarity. And if you’re all about that good, good polarity with your partner, you need to know how to handle transitions well. Let’s talk about it!
Memorable quotes from this episode:
- “I don’t know if I want to take things deeper, so I’m just not going to talk about things.”
- “She didn’t want him to be there if he didn’t want to be there.”
- “I felt safer in the relationship because I knew that I wasn’t the only one tracking things going on with us.”