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Survey Results: Over One Thousand People Weigh in About Sex, Dating & Relationships
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About a year ago, I wrote a piece called My Top 3 Sex Problems As A Woman.
I did ...
The Man I Really Want, Part I
I was on a second date the other day, when my date said something that almost knocked me to my knees.
We were at ...
Why Art Sucks
A guy friend of mine recently made a comment about one of my articles recently that really, really pissed me ...
Vixen Manifesto (the original)
Vixen Manifesto
1. It is possible for every single person alive to have amazing, passionate, mind-altering sex. ...
Ten Things NOT to Do When I’m Being a Bitch
Women don’t come with a manual. If they did, men wouldn’t need man caves.
The truth is, part of what makes women ...
Ten Things He Loves About Women (That Have Nothing To Do With Looks)
Many of you read my piece, Ten Things I Find Sexy About Men (That Have Nothing to Do With Looks).
One of you ...
10 Things To Avoid Doing When Hitting On Me
Being a moderately attractive young woman, I get hit on a fair amount, and I see some of the same mistakes being ...
6 Thing Men Should Get About Women.
Newsflash, men: It isn’t all (always) your fault.
I recently received an amazing email (names and other ...
Dear Men Podcast
333: Are you addicted to porn? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
Do you ever feel ashamed of your porn use, or wish you could stop or cut down? Ever had trouble getting it up and ...
332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis)
If you've ever felt anxious around a woman you were attracted to, gone rigid when you tried to flirt, or ...
331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men
Ever wondered what different women say when they get really real about their last relationship? How about why they ...
330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it!
If you love having sex with women and want to be known as a great lover, being good at going down is an important ...
329: How do you stay grounded when she’s dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange)
When your partner gets anxious or upset, do you feel like it's your fault or that you have to fix it ...
328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney)
"For so long I felt like, ‘this is only happening in my marriage.’"If you've ever experienced ...
327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)
What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings ...
325: What if *every* woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange)
Do you wish your woman was more open to sex? Not just intercourse, but the fun of the whole sex thing -- kissing, ...