Recent Episodes…
255: GuyTalk: Fun with cunnilingus! 3 men share their experience of going down on women
Oral sex can be super hot. In fact, some people consider it even more intimate than intercourse.As one writer put ...
254: The 3 common traps conscious couples fall into (and how to avoid them!) (ft. Allana Pratt)
Let's say you're doing the work, and meet someone else who's doing the work. Now you're in a ...
253: Can you address erectile dysfunction with a science-based sex toy? Turns out yes. (ft. Dr. Soum of MysteryVibe)
Sex is part of life, and major life events affect our sex lives. Here are just a few things you might've wondered ...
252: How to date & have connected sex with a trauma background (ft. Michael Unbroken)
Trauma recovery might not seem like the sexiest topic, but you guys, it is. When it comes to to having healthy, ...
251: Dating lessons from a dating show host! (ft. Alli Goldberg)
"I'm a comedian, and now I’m an accidental matchmaker!"So says Alli, self-proclaimed theater geek ...
250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? ft. Jason Lange
One of the most inspiring things we've seen in our work with men is the rejuvenation of relationships. ...
249: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This relationship pattern could be behind it (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever experienced the relationship pattern where she essentially says, "I was hurt by this thing you ...
248: Hot sexting! How & when to sext, and more on sexual communication (ft. Dr. Tara)
Curious about sexting, or how to bring it up/do it in the context of a new dating relationship? Maybe it's an ...
246: Getting to peak masculine vitality (ft. Michael Holt)
Ever feel like you're dragging? Like you don't have enough energy to do all the things you want to do, ...
245: What’s it like to be swingers? (ft. John & Jackie Melfi)
How do you know if monogamy is right for you? Ever been curious about what it would actually be like to be a ...
244: What if what makes me good at my job makes it harder to date? (ft. Jason Lange)
We work with a lot of men in demanding professions, whether that means long work hours, high-stakes environments ...
243: Why are European women more likely to speak up about sex? (ft. Guy Blaise)
Guy Blaise is a Frenchman who has lived in the U.S. for a number of years. As a man who has dated and had sex with ...
242: Stepping off the ‘relationship escalator’ (ft. Amy Gahran)
When it comes to dating, relationships, and sex, there's a strong cultural norm -- the plotline of what ...
241: What if you’ve ticked the big boxes in life … but you’re still not happy? (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever felt "flat" in life? Like you've done a lot of the things you were "supposed" to do, ...
240: How do we raise good men? (ft. Luke Entrup)
How did you know when you stopped being a boy and became a man (if that's how you identify)? And if you're raising ...
239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it? (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever read No More Mr. Nice Guy, or heard about Nice Guy Syndrome and related to it? If you've identified ...
238: How do I approach a woman at the gym without bothering her? — and other common dating questions (ft. me!)
Here are 4 common questions I get from men, whether clients or listeners like you:How do I approach a woman at the ...
235: "I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?" (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever frozen up around someone you found attractive? It can be exceedingly frustrating — you're fine around ...
223: Creative monogamy — how to open up a relationship strategically (ft. Dr. Joli Hamilton)
Ever wondered what it's actually like to open up a relationship -- meaning explore ethical non-monogamy (ENM), ...
232: Love languages, conflict, connection, and repair
Ever been in a relationship where you felt like she was nitpicking at you, like you could never do anything right? ...
231: Her journey from vanilla marriage to BDSM and kink! (ft. Sara)
Ever wished you could explore different kinds of sexy things in your relationship? How exactly does one go from ...
229: Men have body image issues, too. (ft. Jason Lange)
When we think about body image, shame, and appearance, we often think about women. And for good reason — ...
228: Setting the mood for sensuality … (ft. Amy Anthony)
What does it actually mean to "set the mood"? Yes, candles are fantastic — they give that soft light that makes ...
227: How a woman can reclaim her erotic essence (ft. Violet Lange)
Want that sizzle, that dazzle, that magical mystique? Of course you do. Everyone does. And if you're in a ...
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