Recent Episodes…
311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange)
Ever chased emotionally unavailable women? Ever dropped a connection because you felt overwhelmed, or like ...
310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me)
Sexy time, pickers, and dating, oh my! Here I answer the following three common client or listener ...
309: How do you know when it’s time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange)
When is it time to stay and work on things in your marriage, and when is it time to let things go? Perhaps you can ...
307: What’s the difference between feminine storm and feminine rage? (ft. Shana James)
Have you ever been scared of your wife / woman partner? Ever been harmed by her? If yes, it's likely you ...
306: Boner shame! Let’s talk about it. (ft. Jason Lange)
"I’m getting a boner — what’s she going to think??"
So begins the conflict for a lot of boys and men have ...
305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming
Did you grow up with a religious background? Then congrats, you likely experienced sexual shame! Perhaps you still ...
304: What happens if you or your partner needs space? (ft. Jason Lange)
"Needing space within a love relationship is crucial for maintaining my identity ... It’s not merely about ...
303: ‘Boys have as rich an inner life as girls do.’ (ft. Nat Damon of Reach Academy for Young Men))
When you were a boy, did you feel comfortable being your full self?Did you feel at ease around becoming a man -- ...
302: ‘I ask for stories about the sex that changed you.’ (ft. Carly, creator of Aurore)
What if you could read about the sex that affected someone so profoundly they were never the same? What if you ...
301: What’s the difference between therapy and coaching? (ft. Jason Lange)
"As men, it often feels like we should just know how to succeed in a relationship, how to be great in bed, ...
300: What’s it like to do MDMA therapy with your wife? (ft. Lucas)
A lot of our clients crave more intimacy or closeness with their wife/relationship partner. Often this includes a ...
299: Matchmaking: Is it still relevant? (ft. Anika Rashaun)
Would you ever consider using a matchmaker? In a world of dating apps (and let's be real -- those are rough for a ...
298: Becoming skillful at sexual communication — let’s talk about it. (ft. Kristen Carney of Ask Women)
This episode is pulled from the podcast Ask Women, where I myself was the guest! We delve into my sex research ...
297: The problems with polarity (ft. Jason Lange)
Polarity can help you have a hot sex & dating life, not to mention a stronger love relationship overall. And ...
296: What does it actually mean to step into your power? (ft. Jason Lange)
As a woman, I sometimes feel like saying to all the Nice Guys out there: We need you!
We need you on the court, ...
294: How do I rebuild trust with a partner? (ft. me!)
It's a solo episode! I pulled together some questions from clients or listeners, and go into depth on ...
293: Give it to me whining! (Ft. Jason & Violet Lange)
Does it feel exiting for your woman to be fully open with you, feel deeply cherished, and want to f*** your brains ...
291: Want to get better at dating? Here are 3 ways to practice with women (ft. Violet Lange)
As a client recently put it, where do you go to "scrimmage" with women? How and where do you practice relating, ...
290: Teaching healthy masculinity in schools! The Inspiring Men Project (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
When you were growing up, did you have a host of great role models when it came to how to be a good man?
No, ...
289: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever been in a relationship where you felt like it started off GREAT, but over time it became really hard? Ever ...
288: GuyTalk: What dating is like after getting divorced
Divorce is a complex and often sensitive topic. For many, there are questions of success and failure, grief and ...
287: GirlTalk: The either/or conundrum in sex, dating, and relationships
This episode is kinda edgy! Here we (a small group of women who are attracted to men) give you a peek behind the ...
286: How do I “do” dating apps well? (so I don’t get discouraged) (ft. Jason Lange)
Online dating can be hard! As a hetero man on the apps, you're statistically likely to get far fewer matches ...
285: Depression, Anxiety, and Nice Guy Syndrome (ft. Tony Endelman & Dr. Glover’s work)
How do depression & anxiety intersect with sex & dating?
If you’re one of the millions of people who’ve ...
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