Recent Episodes…

50: One man’s experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)

Sex, dating, relationships, and man/woman dynamics are complex. Polyamory can make it even more so--or simplify things. One man's journey into love beyond monogamy reveals unexpected dating dynamics. 

49: The key to dating with ease (for men)

Three men share their journeys from stress and anxiety around dating, sex, and relationships to ease in both dating and in life. Their truth is refreshing on having deep, healthy, and fulfilling healthy relationships with women (and dating advice). 

48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)

Who should pay on the first date - men or women? What about after you're dating, or in a relationship? How does paying affect the sex? Money, dating, and relationships: let's talk about it.

47 – A love poem for you

On this, the week of Valentine's Day, whether you're a man or a woman, single, in a relationship, dating, or any of the rest of it -- here is a love poem just for you. Xoxo.

46: GuyTalk: Men’s sexual fantasies

Three men get real about their sexual fantasies and how they fit in with real women, sex, dating, relationships, and more. We also go over the top ten most popular male fantasies.

45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!

What's *your* sexual fantasy? We talk about whether we fantasize about the men we're dating or in relationships with, and what our ideal sex is in our fantasies (including the taboo ones).

44: How a “Nice Guy” Found His Power … and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)

Most men aren't raised to be able to access both their heart and their power, and their dating lives suffer. This is one man's riveting journey of transformation around power, that led to healthier relationships not only with women, but relationships...

43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)

Finding your purpose: both men and women want it. Here's how one guy did it. We also touch on how does doing what you love (and getting paid for it) affects your sex, dating, and relationship life.

42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner

When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, can you intentionally attract a healthy, giving, loving partner? The short answer is yes. The long answer is this episode, which outlines a 2-step process to magnetize the man or woman (or men/women ;))...

41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]

What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman for whom sex was painful ... and how she and her husband negotiated that.

41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?

GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?

40: Men and purpose: what’s the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)

The personal development world is obsessed with men being "on purpose," and there's a lot out there about how that impacts the guy's sex, dating, and relationship life. But what purpose really mean, and is it really realistic for the masculine to...

39: Navigating Personal Space vs. Togetherness in Relationship (ft. Jason Lange)

Both men and women need alone time in a relationship, but how do you get it without hurting your partner's feelings? It's a critical dating and relationship skill--and impacts the sex in a surprising way, too.

38: GuyTalk: Casual sex — a male perspective

In addition to casual sex, we talk about catching feelings, play the "how single are you on a scale of 1-10" game, and discuss men, women, sex, dating, and relationships outside monogamy ones. 

37: Secrets of a Sex Researcher

Ever had a hard time communicating about what you like (or don't like) in bed? Maybe you didn't want to hurt your partner's feelings or didn't know how to say it. Men, women, sex, love, dating, romance, and partnership are complicated -- here's the...

36: GirlTalk: Casual Sex!

Casual sex, friends with benefits, and hookup culture between men and women: what does it feel like when it goes well, and what happens when it doesn't? Prepare for some entertaining and sometimes cringe-worthy stories of sexual escapades and the...

35: Keeping sex hot in a long-term relationship (ft. Violet Lange)

Maintaining the sexual passion in a long-term relationship is one of the more important and most challenging parts of the equation. We break down the barriers to hot sex for men and women and how to remove them, so the sparks keep flying.

34: Men Being Awesome: 9 More Stories

The Big Sexy Data Set delivers, with 9 women sharing personal stories of times men were allies to them, whether in a professional, dating, sexual, or safety context. This one is an acknowledgement of the masculine.

33: 10 Times Men Have Been Allies to Me

In light of everything going on between men and women, right now, I wanted to share personal stories of times men have been allies to me. Whether in dating, friendship, sex, relationships, or professional contexts, I've loved how these men showed up.

32: What to say if your woman was assaulted

What's the best to support a woman who tells you about sexual abuse/assault? Here, two women share their personal stories of men who've done it poorly, and those who've done it exceedingly well. Not to be missed.

31: A real couple reveals what it’s like to go to counseling

What is it really like to go to couples counseling? A real couple shares their personal journey of navigating sex and partnership, and how a couples therapist has been an invaluable addition to their relationship. Both men and women will get a lot out...

30: GirlTalk: How to Flirt Like a Boss 😉

Flirting is an art ... and one we adore! Here we discuss the men who've flirted well, and what they did. Whether in dating, sex, or a relationship, flirting is one of the best parts of life and should be celebrated!

29: What it’s actually like to be polyamorous

Monogamy is the default in most relationships, but is it what's really best for couples, or men & women individually? This week's guest says polyamory (aka non-monogamy) feels the most freeing for her, and she experiences even more fulfilling sex...

28: The Day I Outgrew Pickup (ft. Jason Lange)

The pickup artist scene (PUA) is the entry point for a lot of men looking for how to get better with women in sex, dating, and relationships. Here, we explore the positive and darker sides of the pickup scene.

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