Recent Episodes…
352: Do you ever feel collapsed or hopeless? (Like nothing’s working) (ft. Jason Lange)
Does a part of you ever feel like just giving up? It's too much, it's too heavy, it's too ...
351: Men love to be nurtured, too (pt. 2) (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
Ever feel like you need to be tough in order to be seen as "masculine" enough? Ever feel like you wish ...
350: Weed, Porn, and Masturbation: The Trifecta! (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)
"Porn was the #1 relationship I had in terms of intimacy."So says Jason on his experience of sex, love, ...
349: Interested in plant medicine but don’t want to do “drugs”? Try this. (ft. Luke Adler)
Most of us, on our growth journeys, become aware that we need to heal from some kind of trauma. We also often ...
348: ‘I wish we had sex more.’ (ft. Violet Lange)
A common pattern in a lot of love relationships sounds like one partner (often a man, in a man/woman dynamic) ...
347: Men’s work isn’t enough. You’ve also got to have this. (ft. Luke Adler)
Have you ever felt unworthy, less than, or "deeply ugly and stupid," as my guest this week put it?The ...
345: The 4 male "types" who partner with Borderline women (Borderline Personality Disorder) (ft. Violet Lange)
Ever been with a woman partner who was emotionally volatile? Ever felt like you were walking on eggshells, or that ...
344: 3 dating myths to let go of immediately (ft. Jason Lange)
Are you gettin' out onto the dating scene in 2025? Whether you're newly single, a refugee from the world ...
343: A quality women yearn for in relationship (but rarely talk about) (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)
There's a certain quality in men that a lot of women long for -- and I mean long for it from the depths of ...
341: GirlTalk: The most important relationship skill of them all
When it comes to love relationships, whether you're dating or in a committed, long-term relationship, ...
340: Top 3 things we’ve learned about Nice Guys getting to breakthrough (ft. Jason Lange)
We've worked with a lot of men who consider themselves Nice Guys (a la Dr. Glover's famous book, No More ...
339: GirlTalk: Does your woman get anxious? How to soothe her skillfully
Almost every single woman in a relationship (dating or married) needs reassurance sometimes. Unfortunately, many ...
337: GirlTalk: Ever felt like she’s testing you?
Ever felt like there was a "right" answer to a question a woman asked you, or a "right" way to ...
336: Why does your woman poke you sometimes? What’s that about? (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever feel like you're being deliberately provoked by your woman? Or that she sometimes pushes and pushes ...
335: Ever felt like women had a ‘list’ in dating & relationships? (ft. Violet Lange)
Ever gotten the sense that a woman is sizing you up ... deciding whether you match up with a list she has in her ...
334: Are you needy? Here’s the difference between neediness and having needs.
”There was a dysregulation in my nervous system if something wasn’t going the way I wanted to."So says Jason ...
333: Are you addicted to porn? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
Do you ever feel ashamed of your porn use, or wish you could stop or cut down? Ever had trouble getting it up and ...
332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis)
If you've ever felt anxious around a woman you were attracted to, gone rigid when you tried to flirt, or ...
331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men
Ever wondered what different women say when they get really real about their last relationship? How about why they ...
330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it!
If you love having sex with women and want to be known as a great lover, being good at going down is an important ...
329: How do you stay grounded when she’s dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange)
When your partner gets anxious or upset, do you feel like it's your fault or that you have to fix it ...
328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney)
"For so long I felt like, ‘this is only happening in my marriage.’"If you've ever experienced ...
327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)
What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings ...
325: What if *every* woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange)
Do you wish your woman was more open to sex? Not just intercourse, but the fun of the whole sex thing -- kissing, ...
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