My Top 10 Pros & Cons for Getting Into a Relationship (as a Woman)

Mar 18, 2017 | Funny, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Sex, Women

Ahhhh, relationships. That most fraught territory in the realm of human experience. That place where we crash and burn, where we are lifted up into a bliss and connection beyond our conscious mind’s capacity … and where we are smashed into the earth with a velocity...

That Time I Accidentally Got On Tinder, Then Realized I Hate Everything About It

Mar 10, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Sassy Blog, Spirituality, Uncategorized, Women

This past weekend, I got back on Tinder. I had taken a just-under-2-year hiatus. Now, to be clear, I don’t really have anything against Tinder. In fact, I had a very nice lay not long before I got off of it. We had epic hotel sex and I had no complaints. I even keep...

5 Ways I Want to Feel With My Future Man

Mar 3, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Spirituality, Women

[Photo by Bryan Brenneman] This is an edgy piece for me to write right now. First, because I feel self-conscious sharing it, as though I’m afraid someone will call me selfish or ungrateful or unrealistic for naming what I truly want. Second, because I’m not even sure...

My Biggest Fear When it Comes to Getting Into Another Relationship

Feb 24, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Women

I say I want a relationship, and I do. I’ve never had a truly healthy one and I’d really like live inside one, to know what it feels like, to grasp the joy and meaning of it, the growth and intimacy. Given my real and true longing for this, it’s a little puzzling that...

I Surveyed Over 1,000 People About Dating Problems. Here’s What They Said

Feb 21, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Funny, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Sex, Women

[Photo credit: Cristina Souza] I’m a member of a beach cleanup crew. We meet regularly. There is a cute guy on this crew, and a few weeks ago, we got to talking a little bit. When I got home that day, I saw that he’d friended me on Facebook. He has no girl in his...

The Secret Relationship Killer No One is Talking About

Feb 17, 2017 | Being Single, Men, Sassy Blog, Sex, Women

I broke up with my last boyfriend because of sex. I didn’t tell him that, of course. I told him other things, things that were also true. So it’s not that I lied, but I didn’t share the full truth. I didn’t tell him the full story for the same way a lot of people...