Feb 17, 2017 | Being Single, Men, Sassy Blog, Sex, Women
I broke up with my last boyfriend because of sex. I didn’t tell him that, of course. I told him other things, things that were also true. So it’s not that I lied, but I didn’t share the full truth. I didn’t tell him the full story for the same way a lot of people...
Feb 10, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Sassy Blog, Women
There is something deliciously, marvelously, exquisitely sexy about a man who pursues. I met a guy at a party recently who Friended me that night on Facebook. He hit me up the next day, asking how I was, etc., and we chatted for a day or two before he asked for my...
Jan 27, 2017 | Being Single, Men, Sassy Blog, Sex, Women
[Photo credit: Tony Fischer] About a year ago, I wrote a piece called My Top 3 Sex Problems As A Woman. I did it to promote transparency and openness. I did it because I think we should talk about sex more, and more honestly. I did it because the better we feel about...
Mar 24, 2014 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Sassy Blog, Women
I was on a second date the other day, when my date said something that almost knocked me to my knees. We were at a gallery opening, the kind of event less about the art itself than the scene: free wine and cheese, a DJ spinning trendy, Euro-trash EDM, and enough...
Nov 10, 2013 | Sassy Blog, Spirituality, Women
A guy friend of mine recently made a comment about one of my articles recently that really, really pissed me off. He said that in calling myself ‘moderately attractive’ at the beginning of Ten Things NOT To Do While Hitting On Me, I myself was breaking not one, but...
Aug 30, 2013 | Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Sex, Spirituality, Women
Vixen Manifesto 1. It is possible for every single person alive to have amazing, passionate, mind-altering sex. In fact, as human beings it is not only possible, it is our birthright. 2. Everyone should have a relationship with her/his sexuality completely separate...