Mar 3, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Spirituality, Women
[Photo by Bryan Brenneman] This is an edgy piece for me to write right now. First, because I feel self-conscious sharing it, as though I’m afraid someone will call me selfish or ungrateful or unrealistic for naming what I truly want. Second, because I’m not even sure...
Feb 24, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Women
I say I want a relationship, and I do. I’ve never had a truly healthy one and I’d really like live inside one, to know what it feels like, to grasp the joy and meaning of it, the growth and intimacy. Given my real and true longing for this, it’s a little puzzling that...
Feb 21, 2017 | Being Single, Dating, Funny, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Sex, Women
[Photo credit: Cristina Souza] I’m a member of a beach cleanup crew. We meet regularly. There is a cute guy on this crew, and a few weeks ago, we got to talking a little bit. When I got home that day, I saw that he’d friended me on Facebook. He has no girl in his...
Aug 30, 2013 | Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Sex, Spirituality, Women
Vixen Manifesto 1. It is possible for every single person alive to have amazing, passionate, mind-altering sex. In fact, as human beings it is not only possible, it is our birthright. 2. Everyone should have a relationship with her/his sexuality completely separate...
Aug 22, 2013 | Funny, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Women
Women don’t come with a manual. If they did, men wouldn’t need man caves. The truth is, part of what makes women appealing can also make them terrifying. Their emotional volatility is either fascinating or distressing, depending on both how it’s expressed, yes – but...
Feb 4, 2013 | Dating, Funny, Men, Relationships, Sassy Blog, Sex, Spirituality, Women
Newsflash, men: It isn’t all (always) your fault. I recently received an amazing email (names and other identifying information have been changed), and it had me realize just how much confusion there is when dealing with the fairer sex: “Hi there. I stumbled upon your...