"When I was at my worst, I didn’t know there was a way out."
Sometimes in life we get stuck. We don't know how to deal with big feelings, so we self-medicate — with alcohol, or porn, or weed, or food.
But often the self-medication gets in the way of things we really want — love; intimacy; healthy, connected sex; joy.
You may think of 12-step programs as solely for alcoholics, but they're far mroe comprehensive. There are programs for porn addiction, codependency in relationship, sex & love addiction, and for those who are loved ones of an addict (or adult children of parents who were addicts).*
Addiction and recovery profoundly affect your sex and love life, and here, speaker and 12-step mentor Mark Wilde delves into his own story, and how his journey has positively impacted his marriage.
In his words, as he grew and healed and learned to lead: "When I became more vulnerable and expressive, I had reciprocation and energy from her that I’d not experienced before … our relationship began to ascend dramatically."
If you want to feel inspired and uplifted, listen on.
*These groups are: Codependents Anonymous (CODA), Porn Addicts Anonymous (PAA), Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), Al-Anon (for the loved ones of those who struggle with addiction).
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Memorable quotes from this episode:
- "My parents passed away, my marriage ended, and it got bad."
- "Alcohol became a solution to deep-seated issues that had carried on since childhood."
- “I still felt myself wearing lots of masks and building up lots of walls.”
- “How am I going to placate and keep the peace and make her happy?"
- “When I did work with my body, I felt the unlocking of everything.”
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Mentioned on this episode:
- What Happened to You?