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Want to be the best lover you can possibly be?

Want to give her the kind of pleasure that has her crave being sexual with you again?

Whether you’re in a relationship or not, the vast majority of men I talk to want to be incredible in bed.

Yet as a sex researcher, in the course of asking 1,067 women about the men who are best in bed, I found an alarming statistic:

One-third of women in my research report that 90%+ of men are not good in bed.

Maybe the sex was underwhelming.

Maybe it was actually kind of painful for her, but rather than speak up, she just decided to grin and bear it (the research shows that’s common).

In a dating context, these are the guys the women don’t want to see again. And frequently a woman might won’t directly say, “The sex wasn’t good and that’s why I don’t want to see you again” … they’ll just ghost.

In a relationship context, these are the women who don’t want to have sex with their boyfriends or husbands as much as they did before.

If she doesn’t want to have sex with you, this could be why.

But the 10% of men who are incredible in bed … that’s the sex she talks about to her girlfriends the next day at brunch.

It’s the sex that causes her to swoon over a man (whether she’s in a relationship with him or not). It’s the sex she can’t get enough of, the man where she bites her lip and starts to blush when she remembers what it was like to be with him.

He’s the one she can’t wait to have sex with again.

Most men are in the 90% and don’t even realize it.

This course was designed to put you in the 10%.

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Please Her In Bed is a course I created based on my exclusive sex research of 1,067 women.

It walks you step-by-step through what over a thousand woman say about the men who are best in bed.

Women shared the most intimate and vulnerable parts of their sex lives with me in part to help YOU understand how to do this (and how doable it is).

Before getting into what the women talked about, here are a few notable things the women did NOT talk about:

0% talked about the man having a great body (you don’t need a six-pack to be great in bed)
<3% of women talked about a large penis (you don’t need a huge cock to be great in bed)
<5% of women talked about a man staying for a long time (you don’t need a raging erection to be great in bed)

Now contrast that with this:

Over 40% of women DID mention a single quality that the men who are incredible in bed have cultivated … and that’s what module 1 is almost entirely devoted to.

It comes up in every single module, repeatedly. It’s a quality you MUST develop and display with her to be unforgettable in bed.

The other thing both men and women talk about struggling with when it comes to sex is how to talk about it.

Talking about sex can be hard. You don’t want to make her uncomfortable. You don’t want to say the wrong thing.

In my research, both men and women repeatedly talk about how hard it is to share what they truly want sexually. Women describe how much they love male partners who helped them open up.

This is why the course includes how to talk about sex — how you as a man can lead discussions around sex that leave both partners feeling more seen, heard, relaxed, turned-on, and connected.

So what exactly does the course cover?

It’s comprised of 4 modules:

Module 1: How to Talk About Sex, and the Build-Up

- The 4 specific reasons it’s scary for a woman to talk to you about sex
- How to make it safe for her to open up to you — both what to say and how to act
- How female arousal actually works, and how to arouse her during the day — before getting into the bedroom (women repeatedly talk about this)

Module 2: Mouth & Hands (Oral Sex and Fingering)

- Over 70% of women don’t orgasm from intercourse, so oral sex and fingering are vital if you want to keep her coming back for more
- The biggest mistakes men make in going down on women (oral sex) and when using their hands (fingering) — this is important because the research shows that most men are actually hurting women with their fingers
- What to do instead to give her intense pleasure with both

Module 3: Intercourse

- The biggest mistakes men make in intercourse, including why getting hard and staying hard isn’t always the best thing
- An easy way to give her intense pleasure just before penetration (which most men don’t do, because it’s not shown in porn!)
- How to make it simple and easy to touch the G-spot with your cock, which can give her intense, mind-blowing pleasure

Module 4: Advanced Sexual Practices

- The 2 kinds of consent and how to work with them
- The light side and dark sides of sex, and why it matters that you can access both. This is what separates the men from the boys, so to speak
- The fact that her pleasure isn’t all your responsibility, and how to handle that. Some things are up to you; some things aren’t, and you need to know the difference

TESTIMONIALS

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“Before the course, in terms of oral — I realize I was very ‘perfunctory’ in my technique … The woman never really complained but I realize now she probably was disappointed.

After the course, one woman, who is particularly difficult to please in most aspects not just sex, moaned in an unmistakably genuine way when I gave her oral sex. She also mentioned it a day or two later, saying she had no idea I could be so good at it.”

– P.M., 53 years old

“I almost immediately started seeing a woman shortly after the program. She is open and is all over me. And we’ve had intercourse!! Before the course, I hadn’t had intercourse in about 2 years.

I took the course because I wanted to be more confident in how I showed up in the bedroom. After taking it, I feel way more prepared and ready to handle and lead uncomfortable conversations about sex. I’m able to relax more around having intercourse and shame around sexual performance has also started to disappear.”

– R.B., 27 years old

“I took the course hoping to establish a closer relationship with my wife of over 20 years. Our sex life was always vanilla, but lately it was starting to dwindle to less than once a month, and not particularly satisfying for either of us.

Since the course, however, our sex life has improved considerably. Now, I feel way more confident about my ability to connect with my wife, and make the experience satisfying for both of us. I feel less anxious, more confident, and happier — and she does, too.

We are more tuned into each other than we’ve been in years. I’ve always loved my wife but feel like I’m falling in love with her again after 25 years.”

– G.R., 48 years old

Real talk: It’s hard to get women to open up about sex.

I created this course to make it easier. I specifically wanted to help men who want to learn about sex from WOMEN, not from other men or from porn (which does NOT show how to please actual women).

If you’re just interested in learning about formulaic techniques or body parts, don’t take this course.

But if you want the real, inside look at what REAL WOMEN crave from REAL MEN, take this course.

There aren’t a lot of other places that have organized this kind of information, because there isn’t a lot of research that combines both how women FEEL about sex (what helps them open up emotionally) and what works for their bodies.

This course is meant to give you a peek behind the curtain into the truth about female pleasure, and how to help a woman have intensely satisfying sexual experiences with you.

I want every man who wants to be incredible in bed to know exactly how to do that.

Good luck, and let me know how it goes!

FORMAT DETAILS:

The course is 4 video modules. You get instant access to Module 1, and the other modules unlock week by week. This is because there’s a lot of info in each module, and I’ve found that it works best when you have time to integrate. Many men report that it helps to watch the videos a few times through, to really internalize the material. This course has the power to fundamentally shift the way you experience sex with women, and you want to give your body the time to allow that to happen.
Each module includes 2 things: 1 video presenting the material for that week; and 1 audio that is the reflections and questions of the men who took the course originally. You get to hear both the material, plus the reactions of real men who are working through the material and everything it brings up
The course also includes lifetime access to a live Q&A call with me (Melanie) once a month. So even after you complete the course, you can still jump on the monthly calls for as long as this course runs. The Q&A calls are a safe place to get any questions answered, and you can submit questions beforehand so you don’t have to ask live on the call (you can remain anonymous). Only men in the course are on the call. Also, even if you can’t be on the call due to the timing, I still answer your questions and then make the recording available.

Please Her In Bed