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Survey Results: Over One Thousand People Weigh in About Sex, Dating & Relationships
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About a year ago, I wrote a piece called My Top 3 Sex Problems As A Woman.
I did ...
The Man I Really Want, Part I
I was on a second date the other day, when my date said something that almost knocked me to my knees.
We were at ...
Why Art Sucks
A guy friend of mine recently made a comment about one of my articles recently that really, really pissed me ...
Vixen Manifesto (the original)
Vixen Manifesto
1. It is possible for every single person alive to have amazing, passionate, mind-altering sex. ...
Ten Things NOT to Do When I’m Being a Bitch
Women don’t come with a manual. If they did, men wouldn’t need man caves.
The truth is, part of what makes women ...
Ten Things He Loves About Women (That Have Nothing To Do With Looks)
Many of you read my piece, Ten Things I Find Sexy About Men (That Have Nothing to Do With Looks).
One of you ...
10 Things To Avoid Doing When Hitting On Me
Being a moderately attractive young woman, I get hit on a fair amount, and I see some of the same mistakes being ...
6 Thing Men Should Get About Women.
Newsflash, men: It isn’t all (always) your fault.
I recently received an amazing email (names and other ...
Dear Men Podcast
287: GirlTalk: The either/or conundrum in sex, dating, and relationships
This episode is kinda edgy! Here we (a small group of women who are attracted to men) give you a peek behind the ...
286: How do I “do” dating apps well? (so I don’t get discouraged) (ft. Jason Lange)
Online dating can be hard! As a hetero man on the apps, you're statistically likely to get far fewer matches ...
285: Depression, Anxiety, and Nice Guy Syndrome (ft. Tony Endelman & Dr. Glover’s work)
How do depression & anxiety intersect with sex & dating?
If you’re one of the millions of people who’ve ...
284: Is cheating (including emotional affairs) correlated with Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Jason Lange)
Cheating is both a sensitive and complex topic. It lies at the intersection of sexuality, betrayal, needs, wants, ...
283: How to go from stuck … to unstuck … to THRIVING (ft. Brian Johnson of Heroic)
"What should I do with my life?"
It's a question most of us ask ourselves (sometimes on repeat!), and one many of ...
282: Anal sex! Yep, we’re talkin’ about it. (ft. Sara)
Ever wanted to explore the dark side of the moon? 😉 If you've ever been curious about anal sex -- or enjoy ...
281: How do I say, ‘I need you to have more support outside of just me?’ (ft. Jason Lange)
One pattern we've often seen in our clients (and lived ourselves) is feeling like our partner needs us in order to ...
280: How do I tell my partner I want something different? (ft. Jason Lange)
Ahhh, the conundrum: Your partner does something you don't like but you don't know how to say so, so you just let ...